FLY messed around a bit on Tinder, but nothing really came of it. That app seems way more casual, and much more prone to lack of responding than other services. Either way, pix is right. On OKC I talked with a few different women, and one seemed to be going really well, we were planning on going out, and then she just stopped responding. I reached out a few days later, didn't hear back, and just decided to move on. Sometimes that's just how it goes, and I realize that women on dating sites or apps are probably flooded with guys. The other girl I went out with once, and I thought it went really well, we even exchanged phone numbers before and texted a bunch, but then she stopped responding for days, sent me a message a few months later, and that kept up for another message or two, but that was that.
Ultimately, things tend to work out as long as you are genuine to yourself and others. Resisting the urge to be 'that guy' is tough sometimes, but the right thing to do and respectful. Now I find myself in a stable and happy blossoming thing, I think, and it was completely unplanned and all that. But I guess we'll see how it goes. Best of luck, Sam!