I found it interesting how much the characters I'm supposed to identify with got on my nerves. Normally I can overlook a lot of sexist/racist/whatever crap in a movie and take it on its terms as part of the time it was in. Case in point, the exoticising and stereotyping of the "natives" in the Marrakesh scenes is just a standard part of a 1950s movie and there's no point in getting worked up about it.
However, the interraction between Jimmy Stewart and Doris Day's characters in the sedation scene had me livid. I couldn't get past it and I couldn't buy how fast Doris Day's character got over it. I can't imagine not completely despising my husband for forcing me to take drugs and treating me like an idiot child in the whole "how to tell about the kidnapping". I though her initial reaction to realizing what he was telling her and that she was already drugged and helpless to leap into action, and her anger at him were completely realistic. What wasn't realistic is that she appeared to sleep it off and it is never mentioned for the rest of the movie. I was so aggravated by that it was hard to keep going.
I know that it was much more okay to be paternalistic and dismissive of women as hysterics in the 1950s but I still think that scene was over the top. I just wondered whether the viewer was meant to find the good doctor's actions horrifying and offensive or reasonable in the context of the time. After all, the whole first part of the movie before that point has Doris Day finding a lot of stuff seeming to be fishy and her husband is dismissive. After the sedation scene, she is never overtly drugged again but holds it together quite well and actually takes the lead again and again in the hunt for the son. She figures out the correct Ambrose Chappell while Jimmy Stewart makes an idiot of himself. (Aside: The Ambrose Chappell red herring scene wasn't funny to me at all and ground the movie to a halt. It could have been a lot shorter and used to ratchet up the tension rather than completely defuse it, if Stewart had more understanding of a short period of time and more angst at realizing that the false lead had burned a lot of time).
On the other hand her "woman's hysteria" nearly undoes her at the climax, while she stands there paralyzed and weeping as she sees the assassination about to unfold and it's Stewart who galvanizes her and charges off to find the police in the theatre. On the third hand, it's her "hysteria" that saves the prime minister since she shreiks at the sight of the gun about to fire.
The timing/pacing of the climax(es) was odd. There was so much winding up of the tension around the concert scene that it felt like the foiling of the plot was THE climax of the movie, yet there was still the real bad guys to find and the kid to rescue. There's this seemingly endless sag of exposition about who was doing the plotting, let's kill the kid, Jimmy and Doris talk to the prime minister (you are going to hang around to meet the PM while your kid is now in even more danger??) and the cops yadda yadda. Then it takes forever to unspool what you can see immediately...Doris singing the "special song" is going to get the kid to react and help his own rescue. On the Netflix watch-it-now feature you can see exactly how long a movie is and exactly how much time is left. TMWKTM is exactly 2 hours and it was at about 1:57 that Stewart sets off upstairs to the rescue, and 1:59 when the bad guy falls down the steps and then BAM the movie is over. Does the guy plotting to assassinate the PM get outted/caught? Who knows? Does Doris grab up her kid, slap Jimmy, take the next boat home and file for divorce? Dunno.
I did say to my Gf after it was over, that I was pretty sure if the marriage didn't end one minute after the movie did, then Doris Day's character was definitely one of those women who read Betty Friedan in the 1960s and tossed off the marital bonds. Given the age of the son at the time of the movie, he was probably a candidate for Easy Rider by 1968 or so....I had a lovely image of he and his mom both ending up in San Francisco while dad mouldered in Indiana drinking Scotch and taking Miltowns....
Yes, I really really disliked Jimmy Stewart's character!