winrit, have no fear, I think im the only one in my family who's not in love with the film. Actually I do like it, and the love scene between Adam Sandler and Tea Leoni almost made me pee in my pants, (Hands down the funniest sex scene ever filmed). I just felt like Tea's character was way too over the top towards the end.
After watching the deleted scenes, theres one scene between Debb and Flor that should have made the final cut since it really humanizes Debb, but was unfortunately left out. Still its a fun flick, and like I said, Cloris Leachman is worth the rental alone.